A confident person will never stuck
in his life when he faces failure. He used to find a fault for his failure and
try to rectify it.
A person who believes in himself
will never go for negative thoughts or comments. He never waste his time on
worries. Instead, he uses his energy to perform better which makes him feel
confident.
A confident person can deliver his
message more effectively rather than the person who lacks confident. A person
with high level of self confidence will become successful both in his personal
and professional life.
FOLLOWING ARE SOME COMMON STRATEGIES TO BOOST YOUR
SELF CONFIDENCE
STOP COMPARING YOURSELF YOUR SELF
TO OTHERS
Every human being is born with
unique features. Never feel that you don’t
have talents. Feel happy with what you are. Expose your uniqueness to others. Don’t
try to become like others. Stay as you are. Don’t make others to succeed by
comparing yourself with others.
FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF
Dress well. See your image on mirror
every day.
BE KIND TO YOURSELF AND OTHERS
Stand in front of the mirror and
talk some kind words to yourself. Never use harsh words towards others. Be friendly
with every one.
FACE YOUR FEARS
Have a diary and write down your
fears in ascending order. Have an assignment daily to face your fear. For example
if you have a fear about public talk, try to get rid of that fear by talking in
a group frequently. Continuous exposure to fear will make you more confident in
achieving the task.
TURN NEGATIVE THOUGHTS INTO
POSITIVE
Whenever you come across negative thoughts
in your mind, divert your mind to some things that you like most. Write some
positive notes and stick it on the walls and make it visualize to you. Reading those
positive notes makes you to think positively.
MAKE YOURSELF KNOWLEDGEABLE
Learning will never end. If you want
to become a successful person in your profession, make yourself knowledgeable. Example:
publishing article in a journal, making blog etc. Practice daily to increase
your competence.
THINK ON SOLUTIONS RATHER THAN
PROBLEM
Every person in the world has
problems in their life. Problems are same but it differs based on person’s
view. A confident person will never sit and worry while facing the problem. He starts
to look for the solutions to come out from the problem. Don’t go towards the
negative path. Always look for positive solutions.
COMMUNICATE YOUR MESSAGE CLEARLY
AND SLOWLY
A person who lacks confident always
have a fear that their words are not being listened by others, so they try to
communicate fast. They have the intention to deliver the message rather than
communicating clearly. But a confident person will deliver the message clearly
and slowly with an intention of making others to understand.
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